Educating With Love and Affection




Educating With Love and Affection. Affection is the main basic component in the process of education and the formation of character or morals of children. A teacher who has a sense of huge affection will be very devotion to his profession compared to one who more oriented to money. And also t the students taught the sense of affection will be more enjoyful and understanding the lesson.

Parents that always educate their children with love and affection will create great fun of learning atmosphere for children in the family . Children never get bored to absorb each lesson given. Because the better way to captivate children and win ttheir confidencef is expanding love and affection of their parents.

By love and affection, the home atmosphere will be a very fun place for children and all occupied.So the home became a residence and gathering all the happiness, peace and politeness. Homes filled by the lights of love and affection will be a place of honesty and all the nature of happiness and good living.

Children will learn to love at home when both parents live in an environment with full of loving care. With the lessons of love received at home, children will be the child's soft and meek. If the child grew up in a house full of atmosphere with hatred and venom that character will be delivered easily offended and quick-tempered, his life will always be fulfilled by the feeling of resentment that will ultimately children hurt themselves in the of age.

Parents who do not have to be wise to show the ills of life on the faces of their children because the affliction is a burden that may be too heavy for children, and with the cares of life to the children will not reduce the burden of woe itself, but even bring due to a bad day on the child later. children will grow into men who do not have enough confidence in the face of life itself in the of age.

Tidak sedikit orang tua yang salah menerapkan rasa cinta dan kasih sayang dalam keluarganya.
Not a few parents a false sense of love and apply love in the family. Eye gaze of love, fondling and chat and act at home and the absolute need to be done, but most parents forget that love and affection is a relief and a firm conviction. Sense love and affection that should be spoken with words that educate , so that children understand themselves and understand that is part of the family. Children will understand and realize that he also has rights and obligations and responsibilities in the family, as well as other family members.

Do not let the children live and vacilate with their own feelings about the position in the family. Assertion that is itself part of the family that will have a sense of awareness and possess so that children will be cared for and maintain the voluntary and maintain order communication fulfilled love that has been built and maintained their parents.

Often parents made dizzy by his son that attitude tendency reluctant tidy and trim back after the toys used. When the habit is left until the children become adults and grows up, he will tend to leave any equipment that has been used of any kind place before afterwards lost.

Bad habits do not want or are reluctant to trim back or away toys after use, is the intention of the level of awareness of child ownership piece. When the children understand and realize that is part of the family and the ownership of any property which is located in the home certainly with awareness as a child, he will participate and maintain to take care of it.

Parents of indiscretion in the sense of love for children tendency will finalize and sort out their children toys, and even more along with some nagging and nagging that is not understood by children. Attitude that parents will escort children to be careful of the environment. Children will lose their sense of indifferent to each other. He will lose the love and affection in himself and grow into a selfish man, hard head, a sadist and free themselves.

Giving the clear civilize language of love and will be refined to make children grow into a child's soft and full responsibility. Children will be easy to understand their environment and be comfortable communicating, so in the end after her adult life she will grow into a man as existences recognized and spreader so that love for each other role models

The best way to teach love and affection to the children besides always fulfilled the house with the comportable aura of love and affection that is with allowing the child to see the love and sweet affection given by their parents to their grandmother and grandfather. Children will guiding his heart to understand that "Actually God’s blessing is on the willingness the parents "(Al-Quran).


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